Break up so many tears and possibly prego :-( repost ..?

Deep down you kind of want to be pregnant because you think this will give him a reason to stick around. Trust me,you may not admit it but trust me when I tell you this,having a baby for the wrong reasons is a serious issue. A baby WILL NOT make a guy stick around,trust me! A baby is the main reason why guys leave,especially when they're young i.e. 18-23. If you are not financially ready and you don't have a career,or you don't have a degree then you should really consider an alternative(only my opinion). Girls always get caught up in "love"that they don't think about the BIGGER picture. You can not pin a baby on a guy and expect him to change around,trust me,you MUST THINK about the future and what you will have to offer that baby. If you don't have anything right now,having a baby will only put you further back than you already are. Don't get me wrong babies are a beautiful thing,but only when your fully mature,and ready and you have a responsible father. Judging from how he's acting things WILL NOT get better when that baby comes,TRUST ME!!!!!!!!! You need to be seeing what you can do for an alternative(once again)because you might not even want to be with this guy forever. You may think you do BUT trust me that's just a fantasy that will NEVER happen and please don't be naive and think a baby will make it be alright. That is the real,and take it from someone who has experienced it first hand,you need to get yourself together and stop sobbing over this guy. Move on,be strong and get through and go to the doctor and take a test. IM TELLING YOU,you will be better off finding an alternative. Mater fact im going to give you my e-mail and I want you to tell me what happened ejoneal2007@yahoo.com. BUT PLEASE READ THIS CAREFULLY AND REALLY CONSIDER WHAT IM TELLING YOU. DON'T LET YOUR FEELINGS FOR THIS GUY(AT THE MOMENT) DETERMINE HOW THE REST OF YOUR LIFE WILL BE. A baby will not change that. Go to the doctor,leave him the hell alone,and move on and get yourself together. TRUST ME,you'll thank me in the end.